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What’s Your Survivor Love Style?

Our quiz analyzes how traumatic childhood experiences may have shaped how you show up in your relationships

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THE HERO

Strength: Independent, capable and responsible
Weakness: Uncomfortable receiving help

Family crisis turned you into a mini-adult long before your time. While other kids played, you managed household responsibilities, solved problems, and became alarmingly good at caregiving 🏠. Your ability to handle pressure and take charge in difficult situations is genuinely remarkable—people often marvel at how capable and responsible you are 💪. This competence has served you well in life, making you reliable and resourceful in ways that others admire. But becoming self-sufficient so early came at a cost: you never learned that it's safe to be taken care of. Receiving help feels foreign and uncomfortable, like you're breaking an unwritten rule by not being the stronger one. Your childhood taught you to be the solution, not the one who needs solving.

This trauma survivor love style may develop as an adaptation to difficult childhood experiences. Below are 8 relevant experiences:
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