Browse Survivor Love Styles

Browse survivor love styles below. We have organized these 75 love styles into 10 key domains where adaptations to difficult childhood experiences may happen.

Relationship Roles

1.🎭The Actor2.🥈The Also Ran3.👐The Caregiver4.❤️‍🩹The Empath5.🤛The Fighter6.🧯The Fire Extinguisher7.💪The Hero8.🥇The High Achiever9.😶‍🌫️The Invisible Child10.⚡The Lightning Rod11.🏆The Love Earner12.🪞The Mirror13.🚗The Passenger14.🕊️The Peacemaker15.📺The Politician16.🩹The Rescuer17.🪨The Stoic18.▵The Triangles Expert

Love

1.🎭Acting Out for Love2.🧮Always Doing The Math3.🛡️Braced for Independence4.🌊Come Here, Go Away5.✋Guarding Against Heartbreak6.🦶Keeping One Foot Out the Door7.💓Loving and Hating Intensely8.🔥Loyal to Your Abusers9.📖No Playbook for Love10.💃🏻Same Dance, Different Partners11.💫Whiplashed in Relationships12.🧠Wired for Crisis

Body

1.🛡️Body Guarded2.🏥Body That Doesn't Belong To You3.🌙Body That Learned to Leave4.🍽️Body That Remembers Hunger5.🫀Body That Remembers What You Forgot6.🎬Sex as a Movie7.💰Sex as a Transaction8.⛔️Sex as Violence

Belonging

1.🎒Always Ready to Leave2.🧲Drawn to the Margins3.👋Expecting Everyone to Leave4.🏚️Guest in Your Own Home5.🦎The Chameleon6.👀The Outsider7.📡The Social Radar

Reality

1.👁️Blind Spots in Plain Sight2.🚙Driving without a GPS3.↩Going to the Opposite Extreme4.🗣️Guided by Voices from the Past5.🫵Hypnotized to Believe You're Damaged Goods6.🕯️Living in Ancestral Shadows7.🔍Reading Between the Lines

Conflict

1.👍The Accommodator2.⚔️The Accommodator-Fighter3.⚖️The Advocate4.🏃‍♀️The Runner5.👻The Vanishing Act6.🌋The Volcano

Safety

1.🚨Hair Trigger Alert2.🏃‍♂️⚔️Living in Fight-or-Flight3.🔐Safe to Tell, Unsafe to Live With4.📡The Radar Always On5.⚡Wired for Survival

Trust

1.👟Always Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop2.🤐The Secrets Keeper3.🙇‍♀️The Skeptic4.💔Wounded by Betrayal

Loss

1.🎗️Carrying the Weight of Being the One Who Lived2.⚫Living with Premature Knowledge3.🖐Rehearsing Goodbye4.💨Terrified of Abandonment

Boundaries

1.🚧All or Nothing Walls2.😶‍🌫️Lost in Boundaries3.🚫Resisting Quick Closeness4.🧽The Emotional Absorber